Let’s Get Real About Self-Care
- Tracy Heilers
- Jan 5
- 4 min read
Stephanie Letourneau, M.Ed., RYT-500
Educating Mindfully Member
Brain Longevity® Specialist
Mindfulness-Based Learning Framework Components: Well-Being Practices
Self-care isn’t about bubble baths or checklists. It’s about learning to listen to yourself. It’s recognizing when you’re overwhelmed, setting boundaries without guilt, and giving yourself the same compassion you offer others. True self-care isn’t a quick fix or an aesthetic, it’s a way of living that reminds you that you matter.
When you neglect yourself, patience runs short, your energy drains, and your ability to show up for others fades. Self-care isn’t indulgence; it’s survival. When you make well-being a priority, you recharge, model boundaries, and build resilience.
“When we choose self-care, we’re not choosing to ‘opt out.’ We’re choosing to stay in the work, without losing ourselves in it.”
The Eight Daily Factors of Self-Care
These eight areas aren’t about perfection, they’re about balance. You don’t need to master them all daily; small, intentional actions in even one area make a difference.
Nutrition
Hydration
Movement
Sleep
Mindfulness
Time Management
Emotional Awareness
Find Joy
“Self-care is not selfish. It’s strategic sustainability.”
Reflection Prompts
How do you currently take care of yourself?
Which factors are your strengths? Which ones are your challenges?
What small habit could you start this week to nurture your well-being?
Sleep: The Foundation of Restorative Wellness
Sleep is the most essential, yet most often sacrificed, form of rest. Educators are notorious for staying up late grading, planning, or worrying about students. Over time, chronic sleep deprivation affects mood, memory, metabolism, and resilience. It weakens the immune system, clouds focus, and amplifies emotional reactivity.
“Sleep is not a luxury; it’s the foundation of every other kind of self-care.”
When we sleep, the brain performs its own nightly “cleanup.” It processes memories, repairs cells, balances hormones, and clears toxins. Without it, even the best nutrition or mindfulness practice can’t fully sustain you.
Why Sleep Matters for Educators
Cognitive Restoration: The prefrontal cortex (responsible for decision-making and empathy) recovers only during deep sleep.
Emotional Regulation: Sleep-deprived teachers are more reactive and less patient, making classroom management and collaboration harder.
Resilience and Immunity: Adequate sleep reduces burnout symptoms and supports long-term mental health.
Barriers to Quality Sleep
Overthinking before bed (replaying the day’s stressors)
Irregular schedules (late-night grading or early alarms)
Screen exposure (blue light suppresses melatonin production)
Unprocessed emotions (anxiety or guilt keeping the nervous system activated)
Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward change. Many educators don’t need more time; they need better transitions between work and rest.
Practical Strategies for Better Sleep
Set a soft boundary bedtime: choose a window instead of a strict time.
Create a wind-down routine with tea, stretching, or journaling.
Unplug mindfully. Turn off screens 30 minutes before bed.
Take micro-rests during the day; they lower stress hormones.
Reflect rather than ruminate, try a “mental offload” list before sleep.
Honor consistency. Go to bed and wake up at similar times.
Sleep is not the absence of productivity; it’s the preparation for it. In the REST model, sleep bridges the body and mind’s need for recovery. When educators learn to value sleep as a professional practice, their patience, creativity, and presence expand exponentially.
Reflection Prompts
What habits or thoughts interfere most with your ability to rest at night?
How can you design a nightly ritual that signals safety and calm to your body?
What might improve in your day if you began protecting your sleep as fiercely as your to-do list?
Are you thinking, “I am getting enough sleep, but I am still tired!”?That may be because you are a different type of tired.
The Different Types of Tiredness and How to Rest
We often think rest just means sleep, but tiredness shows up in many forms: physical, mental, emotional, social, sensory, and creative. Understanding which kind of tired you’re experiencing helps you choose the right kind of rest. Otherwise, you can sleep eight hours and still wake up exhausted.
Physical Tiredness
When your body feels drained or heavy, you’re physically tired, often from pushing through fatigue or skipping movement. Rest Strategy: Sleep, stretch, hydrate, and move gently. Sometimes rest looks like stillness; sometimes it looks like walking around the block.
Mental Tiredness
If you can’t focus or make decisions, your brain is tired from overthinking or multitasking. Rest Strategy: Step away from screens, breathe deeply, declutter your space, and let your mind wander.
Emotional Tiredness
If you feel detached or easily upset, compassion fatigue may be setting in. Rest Strategy: Talk with someone safe, journal, or allow yourself to feel emotions instead of suppressing them.
Social Tiredness
When every text or meeting feels like too much, you’re socially tired. Rest Strategy: Say no. Choose meaningful interactions and recharge in solitude or low-demand company.
Sensory Tiredness
Bright lights, noise, and constant notifications overstimulate the nervous system. Rest Strategy: Dim the lights, unplug, or step outside for quiet. Let your senses reset.
Creative Tiredness
When ideas feel flat or forced, your creative energy is depleted. Rest Strategy: Stop producing and start absorbing- read, listen, observe, walk, or simply be. Inspiration flows when we stop forcing it.
Which Kind of Tired Are You?
Reflection Prompts
Which type of tiredness do you experience most often?
How can you build small moments of rest into your day that match that need?
What permission do you need to give yourself to rest without guilt?
Closing Reflection
Self-care isn’t a side task. It’s the foundation of sustainable teaching and living. When we honor our needs, we model balance, compassion, and authenticity for our students. Taking care of yourself isn’t stepping away from your purpose, it’s what allows you to fulfill it with joy.
About the Author
Stephanie Letourneau
Stephanie Letourneau, M.Ed., RYT-500, Brain Longevity® Specialist is a veteran educator, college professor, and founder of the REST (Resilient Educator Support Team) program, which helps teachers build emotional resilience and sustainable well-being. She has presented her work nationally through NEERO, Merrimack College, and Breathe For Change. Learn more at The Educator’s Guide to REST (forthcoming, Routledge, 2026).
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References & Resources
Stephanie's Book: The Educator's Guide To REST
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